The datasheet strongly suggests PSMN075-100MSEX for the transistor and a 10/100 Mbps transformer without common mode chokes for isolation. Wurth 7490100143 is given as an example.
Both of these components are difficult to source.
BUK9M60-100LX from Nexperia seems to be very similar in parameters to PSMN075-100MSEX. Would this be a valid alternative?
For the transformer, S558-5999-T7-F from Belfuse is the same footprint, but it has common mode chokes. Why are common mode chokes and issue for this application?